Unmask Your Strengths and Weaknesses as a Man:

Explore Your Masculinity with our Masks of Masculinity Scorecard

From the moment a boy learns how to navigate the world, he begins wearing masks—layers of protection shaped by early experiences, wounds, and expectations. As he grows into adulthood, these masks become so ingrained that he no longer realizes he's wearing them.

These masks shape his thoughts, reactions, and behaviors—keeping others at a distance, avoiding his deepest struggles, and holding him back from his true potential.

This is the Sleepwalker’s dilemma: moving through life unconsciously, driven by unseen wounds—the Shadow Scars—that dictate his every move.

Maybe you recognize yourself in one of these men:

• Mark—a high-performing professional who’s mastered the art of appearing confident, but secretly, he’s just going through the motions. He has the career, the house, the car, the wife, and the family—but beneath the surface, he’s struggling.

  • Burnt out at work, constantly pushing past his limits but unable to set boundaries.
  • Conflict at home with his wife, feeling like he’s failing as a husband.
  • Reactive with his kids, falling into old patterns, haunted by the fear that he’s becoming his father.
  • No matter what he achieves, he feels like he’s losing control of the things that matter most.

• Sean—a natural leader, always in control, but he’s exhausted. The weight of responsibility is crushing him, and no one sees the pressure he's under.

  • He had an affair. He lost his marriage. Now he’s drowning in regret.
  • Evenings and weekends blur into drinking and drugs to escape the guilt and stress.
  • At work, his drive to be seen as invincible means he says yes to everything, spreading himself too thin.
  • He still can’t keep up. His to-do list is endless, and no matter how much he works, he feels like a failure.
  • He wonders if he’s doomed to repeat the same destructive patterns.

• Dean—the nice guy who does everything right, always there for everyone else, but secretly wonders, “What about me?”

  • He gave everything to his career, reaching the top in a C-suite role. But now, on a career break, he’s lost all sense of direction.
  • His days feel empty. He thought time off would help, but instead, he’s stuck.
  • Procrastination is killing him. He can’t make a decision, can’t find the drive, can’t shake the feeling that he’s lost himself completely.
  • He thought he was building a life of success—but now, he’s questioning if he ever really lived for himself at all.

Their struggles aren’t random. They’re the result of masks they’ve worn for years—masks that once served a purpose but now keep them stuck.

But transformation begins with awareness.

The Masks of Masculinity Scorecard will help you uncover the masks you wear, recognize how they limit you, and take the first step toward embodying the Architect—a man who leads with authenticity, strength, and purpose.

Are you ready to wake up?  Take the scorecard to find out what masks are running your life.

 

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